Why the Name Respect the Kayfabe?

To respect the kayfabe is to understand that we’re always performing—for love, for power, for survival. In wrestling, kayfabe is the illusion that makes the story work. Everyone knows it’s not real, but everyone plays along, because the truth hits harder when it’s dressed as a show.

The same is true in real life.

We all step into roles. We all sell the act. In relationships, in politics, in media—every move is calibrated to control perception. What matters is who’s aware of the performance, who’s asleep in it, and who’s directing the script.

Example? Think of the last time you watched someone:

  • Flirt by pretending not to care.

  • Politicians reframe a scandal as a "lesson learned."

  • CEOs spin layoffs as "pivoting to innovation."
    The moves are obvious—once you know the game.

This publication tracks how power moves between people. Between men and women. Between ideologues and the people they try to control. Between those who perform and those who believe the performance—a tension that plays out in bedrooms, boardrooms, voting booths, and locker rooms.

If you’ve ever felt like the world shifted under you while the narrative stayed the same, this is where you come to understand how the trick was done—and how to stop being the mark.

What You’ll Get Here

Most writing today is padded, neutered, and terrified of saying something real. Respect the Kayfabe delivers truth sharp, clean, and unapologetic—the way raw understanding should be served.

You’ll get:

  • Politics without moral grandstanding.

  • Culture without the algorithmic sheen.

  • History with its teeth still in.

  • Relationships analyzed without worship or disdain.

This is writing for people who know the world runs on unspoken rules—and want to see the levers clearly.

Why Subscribe?

Because you're done pretending you don’t see the game being played. You don’t need ten more explainers. You need clarity. You need language for what you’ve sensed all along but couldn’t say. And once you see the pattern, you don’t unsee it.

If you’ve ever said too much in a room that rewarded silence, you’re in the right place. If you’ve ever been punished for noticing what others ignore, you’ve already started respecting the kayfabe.

Most people will never see the script. Will you?

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Respect the Kayfabe – To respect the kayfabe is to respect the game. This publication breaks down the game through the lens of gender power dynamics, making it make sense.

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V. E. Marés is an author, photographer, and electronic musician from Brooklyn, NY, now based in Austin, TX.